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“Improving skills with the opposite sex is not an area exclusively reserved for those who want to ‘pick up’ or ‘seduce’ as many sex partners as possible. In reality, understanding and relating to the other gender is an integral part of being the best man OR woman you can be. That’s the way to attract a mate beyond your wildest expectations, and it’s what ‘deserving what you want’ is all about.” — Scot McKay


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Scot and Emily McKay are professional dating and relationship coaches, authors and podcast hosts. Together they founded X & Y Communications in San Antonio, TX, which focuses on equipping and empowering men and women who want to go from good to great in their relationships.

They reach over 300,000 people all over the world through their newsletters, podcasts and social media. They are the authors of ten books between them, including four Amazon #1 bestsellers, and have been featured by over 400 media outlets worldwide.

Both Scot and Emily are Traveler’s Century Club members, having explored well over 100 countries together, often with their four children. Their travel blog and podcast can be found at www.wingitworldwide.com.