IN THIS EDITION: Why is it that some guys just naturally attract women while other guys feel the need to memorize routines, openers and any other trick they can find? You want practical answers, and far be it from me to disappoint.

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Scot, how's it going? So this weekend I went on a hike with a friend and a bunch of her friends (whom I didn't know).

I hit it off amazingly with a girl. Halfway though the hike, one of the guys refers to her as 'babe' and only then did I realize they were a couple... I mean, this girl was flirting with me the whole time up until then.

I even pulled a “Superman” with her by catching her when she'd lost her balance and was going to take a nasty 50 foot drop. It was, as you put it, “movie quality” stuff.

So after I realize they're together I give her room and start hanging out with some of the other people on the trip. But for the last 1/4 of the hike, she was back--and she'd been the one to come to me.

Over the last two years I've become the kind of guy with “quality problems'” such as this one (much of the credit for that goes to you). I have options, I'm not desperate, and I don't want to break them up--that's out of the question. I would, however, like to keep my foot in the door, per se. Any suggestions?

P.S. You've helped me a bunch over the last year or so. I think you've answered about 3 or 4 of my emails extensively. I'm in college, and I don't have a lot of pocket change, but I'd love to actually buy some of your advanced material. What program would you suggest I look into?

Emilio (Gallup, NM)

Emilio:

Ah yes…a “high quality problem” indeed. Perhaps yours could arguably be considered the “highest quality problem” possible, which I’ll elaborate upon.

But first things first: You are absolutely correct in not wanting to break them up.

To do that would openly demonstrate a distinct lack of character. Ultimately, lacking character is one of the most POISONOUS ways to kill your ability to deserve great women. It has a way of catching up with you…like eating a dozen Krispy Kremes a day for a few weeks in a row.

Nonetheless, and perhaps ironically, you're going to find that as you become more and more of the kind of man who represents what women really want you'll see situations like this more and more.

I've been kicking around a certain concept for a while, and it’s one so unique that it’s a challenge to make it relatable to most guys. Nonetheless, I'm going to share it with you because I think you'll "get it".

Here we go…

When you become a masculine man who ignites femininity, something bizarre and at times even flat-out creepy happens. For lack of a more subtle description, EVERYTHING FEMALE starts loving you.

And this doesn't necessarily have to be an overtly sexual thing.

Girl's moms love you. Grandmas love you. Your two-year old twin nieces love you. Hell, in my life Emily's DOG (who's female) even loves me. She's horribly jealous of Emily.

There's just something about A MAN IN HER PRESENCE that FEMININE WOMEN cannot resist. This, among other things, is why little girls need dads. When my daughter was very young, she’d greet me when I came home from work by racing to the door and literally leaping upward into my arms. With every fiber of her being she trusted that I would catch her…which I did, every single time.

Given even minimal thought, all of this makes perfect sense. A REAL MAN brings an aura of safety and protection. He conveys a sense of order and purpose.

He knows what he believes. And since his character is built on that solid foundation he is consistent, trustworthy and reliable to “deploy” with impeccable precision.

Simply put, when a MAN is around women feel real comfort. They know that things will be “handled”.

Fear evaporates. Bitterness and frustration are forgotten.

As such, they feel secure and able to convey the warmth and joy that they so want the freedom to both enjoy and give away…probably TO YOU.

And yes...the combination of all those things is also what drives intense sexual attraction when appropriate…accompanied by the freedom to express it and newfound passion in doing so. Nice.

This female friend of yours really couldn't help being drawn to you. After all, you consistently demonstrated a textbook example of what I’ve described above…even LITERALLY when saving her from a disastrous misstep.

The "problem" is hers and her boyfriend's, frankly. You are who you are, and make no apologies. What...were you going to let her FALL 50'?

Of course not.

And where was her boyfriend when she most needed him, anyway?

Order. Safety. CHARACTER.

You mentioned “Superman”, and that’s a valid analogy. Women want a HERO.

You’ve provided a clear demonstration, and I’ve now elaborated the concept in words that any man can understand.

So as for keeping the door open, don't even worry about it. You need not act in any “shady” or underhanded way trying to “steal her” from her boyfriend or something…either directly OR indirectly.

When she breaks up with this guy (which may be sooner than later now that she can put a finger on what's lacking there) she'll come find you. There’s no need to push the issue.

In the mean time, it sounds to me like you are in complete control and hold all the options.

Considering where you are, in answer to your request I'd recommend reading How To Manage Your Wildly Successful Dating Life. You'll enjoy it because you'll relate to it and love how it reads like a launching pad to unimagined levels of success with women.

You can grab a copy of that by visiting the link to our store at the top of this newsletter.

Be Good,

Scot

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Reading Emilio’s story and my response to it, my guess is that you couldn’t help but imagine what it would be like to be in a position like his.

I mean, come on--with all of the focus on “pickup” an “openers” elsewhere in the Seduction Community, stories like this serve to completely flip much of what you’ve probably heard about how to attract women right over on its side…probably scattering loose papers everywhere, right?

Seriously. If you are like most guys out there, the concept of having a woman seek out your company pretty much fries your circuits.

But see, Emilio was able to attract a woman who (unbeknownst to him) even had her BOYFRIEND with her because he was HER HERO. By understanding what REAL MASCULINITY is about, the woman was IGNITED.

As I said, she really couldn’t help it. Emilio isn’t about getting his jollies by “AMOGging” some guy’s girlfriend. But when she dumps the chump who “failed to deploy” (and rightly so), she’ll know where to find him.

The truth is that the world is SORELY LACKING in men who “get it” these days. Yet, the great women are STARVING for guys who do.

Can you be that guy?

Can you “unwire” the programming that comes from either “Mr. Nice Guy” brainwashing OR “dark side” tactics that dehumanize women?

After all, what does a great man want with waffle irons…err women…who will succumb to such manipulation?

It’s time to start getting exactly the HIGH QUALITY women you WANT MOST in your life. The kind who are feminine, emotionally stable and happy to offer you unsolicited approval…not to mention sexy enough to stop traffic.

You do this by DESERVING WHAT IT IS YOU WANT. And then, you build upon that by gaining FULL UNDERSTANDING of how to attain and manage a WILDLY SUCCESSFUL dating life where YOU have the power…and the OPTIONS.

What would be GREAT is if there was a CLEAR ROADMAP to getting there…free of unnecessary “detours”.

As always, I’ve got your back.

Right now, I’ve set everything up for you to get ALL THREE OF MY BOOKS for just $47. You get Deserve What You Want AND How To Manage Your Wildly Successful Dating Life.

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Forget flowers, candy and “kissing up”.

It’s time to learn the secrets to ramping up a woman’s attraction the RIGHT way, and Cook For Your Date goes way beyond it’s title to show you how to make the world’s most perfect seduction happen RIGHT IN THE COMFORT OF YOUR OWN HOME…and make women LOVE you for it.

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Reading those three books is the best way to get real RESULTS with great women AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.

And right now, I’m even rolling in SEVEN BONUSES…including some audio sessions with world-experts we’ve recorded along the way. You can even get your hands on that latest Power Session on REAL CONFIDENCE (we’re talking practical steps here) as part of the plan…it’s yours for the taking as a free trial.

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Until I talk to you next time, be sure to visit the blog (the link’s at the top of this e-mail). I’ve got a brand new video up, and will be posting an OUTRAGEOUS online dating success strategy in a day or two that involves utilizing a feature found on most mobile phones (no, it’s not the camera). You’ll also discover a foolproof way to write a narrative that JUMPS off the page.

Oh…and there was a brand-new X & Y On The Fly unleashed last night also…it’s on iTunes. Enjoy!

Be Good,

Scot

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