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With a program for virtually every area of dating and relationship excellence, you can expect actionable answers to any real-world sticking point you’re facing.  Scot and Emily, along with the entire X & Y Communications team are committed to over-delivering for you, so you’re assured the results you’re looking for.  That’s why every program is backed by a 100% money-back guarantee covering a full 365 days.

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Power Sessions For Men

Power Sessions For Men -- One Year Membership

by Scot McKay

One full year of continuous membership to the elite Power Sessions inner circle. Enjoy a steady stream of exclusive multimedia content addressing issues modern men face in extra depth, all focused on succeeding with the highest level of women on Earth. Plus, you’ll also get direct high-priority e-mail access to Scot personally. Ask questions and expect real answers within 24 hours. Payment is in full at the time of purchase and is NOT recurring. You save $127 over the regular cost of 12 months of membership at $27 per month.

All Fifteen X & Y Communications Programs

by Scot McKay

Includes Get Together Stay Together, Invincible, The Big 4 Man Challenge, Female Persuasion, The Master Plan, Behind Closed Doors, The Man’s Approach, The Leading Man, The Difference, Virtuosity, Chick Whispering, The Walking Code, Code Of The Natural, Massage Your Date and Online Dating Domination 3.0…all at a special bundle discount. Full and complete versions of each will be activated in the Member’s Portal with a single login, just as if you had purchased them separately.

Your Choice 2-For-1

by Scot McKay

Get any two major X & Y Communications programs for the price of one.  Choose from Get Together Stay Together, Online Dating Domination 3.0, Invincible, The Big 4 Man Challenge, Behind Closed Doors, Female Persuasion, The Man’s Approach, The Difference, The Leading Man, The Master Plan, Chick Whispering, Virtuosity, Massage Your Date, The Walking Code or Code Of The Natural.

6 Newest Programs

6 Newest Programs

by Scot McKay

You get the full and complete versions of Get Together Stay Together, Invincible, The Big 4 Man Challenge, The Walking Code, Code of the Natural and Massage Your Date all at a special bundle price. All programs are accessible from the Members Portal with a single login. Save 67% compared to purchasing separately ($502 value).

The Fast Start Package

The Foundation Of Success

by Scot McKay

Get The Master Plan (reg. $97) plus The Leading Man (reg. $97) and The Man’s Approach (reg. $97) in one specially priced bundle. You’ll receive full and unrestricted access to each respective program in the Member’s Portal.

10 From 10: The Game Changers

10 From 10: The Game Changers

by Scot McKay

You get one of the most powerful and acclaimed modules from each of ten major programs by Scot McKay.  It’s a great way to get a solid introduction to every program without having to purchase them all up front.

Un-Settled By X & Y Communications

Un-Settled

by Scot McKay

Screw the “suburban sleepwalk”, embrace your so-called “dark side” in all the best ways possible, and get out of that rut. Finally live the life you’ve always wanted to, but never got around to claiming as your own.

Get Together, Stay Together

Get Together, Stay Together

by Scot and Emily McKay

Have the relationship you want, be the happy couple everyone envies, and get it right from the start.

Invincible

by Scot McKay

What if you believed women couldn’t hurt you, nor did they even want to? Take your power back and be the bold, confident and even dominant man women crave…all without ever being a jerk.

The Big 4 Man Challenge

The Big 4 Man Challenge

by Scot McKay

In a world where we’re told masculinity is no longer relevant and that showing interest in a woman is practically tantamount to rape, it’s time for some straight conversation about how to be the man women want. Take the challenge and thrill women with every facet of your life and every fiber of your being.

Behind Closed Doors

Behind Closed Doors

by Scot McKay

Finally, a comprehensive sex advice program that covers it all. Scot and his “who’s who” of expert guests show you how to identify women who are great in bed, satisfy them better than any other man ever could and have the best sex of your life.

Female Persuasion

Female Persuasion

by Scot McKay

Scot’s wildly popular program on how to charm women everywhere and earn their favor is called Female Persuasion. Discover the magic power every man can acquire to make any woman want to do anything for you. The best part is that you can do it without any tricks, mind games or underhanded tactics whatsoever. Women love to make men happy, and you should reap the benefits.

Major Themes: building rapport, being charming, social interaction, creating interest and intrigue, earning women’s favor in everyday situations, relating to women

Online Dating Domination 3.0

Online Dating Domination 3.0

by Scot McKay

Based on his real-world success and years of teaching others, Scot’s comprehensive toolkit for online dating success is Online Dating Domination 3.0. The newly-expanded version equips you with everything you need to know in order to get women off of your smartphone or computer screen and into your life. Write the hottest women in your metro area, have them answer your messages and meet them in real life.

The Difference

The Difference

by Scot McKay

There has been a shroud of intrigue and mystery surrounding Scot’s program The Difference, but the premise of it is actually very simple: Gather all of the closely-guarded secrets of the world’s best ladies’ men and reveal them in one place. The result empowers you to have amazing new experiences with insanely hot women that few men even dare to even dream is possible.

The Man's Approach

The Man's Approach

by Scot McKay

The Man’s Approach is all about how to approach and meet women, start a conversation, create attraction, get their numbers and make plans to see them again. This is the definitive program for normal guys who want to meet more women without having to become a pickup artist to do so.

The Master Plan

The Master Plan

by Scot McKay

The Master Plan is Scot’s cornerstone program covering how to be a “big four” man (confidence, masculinity that ignites femininity, the ability to make a woman feel safe and comfortable in your presence, character). Take back your natural birthright as a real man who was born to attract high quality women.

The Leading Man

The Leading Man

by Scot McKay

Once you have a great woman in your life, then what? How can you “wear the pants” without losing your shirt? The Leading Man is the original program on how to manage relationships with women, and remains the golden standard. Everything that happens from the first date onward is covered. Whether you want to date multiple women or build a long lasting, healthy relationship with the woman of your dreams, this is the program for you.

Virtuosity

Virtuosity

by Scot McKay

When Scot decided to do his first major multimedia program, he wanted to make sure he over-delivered in a big way. The result was the now-legendary Virtuosity, an epic bonanza featuring over 48 world-class guests who each reveal all the secrets of what they’re uniquely best at. You can also count on powerful and effective teaching on success with women from Scot himself.

Chick Whispering

Chick Whispering

by Scot McKay

Based on Scot’s top-rated podcast The Chick Whisperer, this is your ultimate program on understanding women. Yes, you really can get inside their minds and know exactly what’s going on, allowing you to anticipate their moves and thrill them to no end.

The Walking Code

The Walking Code

by James Knight

New X & Y Communications coaches James Knight imparts the secrets to smooth, sexy motion that captivates women instantly…and makes them approach you first.

Code Of The Natural

by X & Y Communications

The Legendary six-week home study body language course for ultimate attraction and peak performance. Transform yourself into a natural with women.

Massage Your Date

by Trace Loft

New X & Y Communications coach Trace Loft shows you how to harness the power of your own two hands. Make any woman want your hands all over her without any trickery or manipulation whatsoever, and get her naked in thirty minutes or less without any drama. Thanks to Trace’s step-by-step videos you’ll be a massage master in no time.

How To Talk To Your Son About Women And Sex

How To Talk To Your Son About Women And Sex

by Scot McKay

This is the definitive guide for fathers on how, when and even where to talk to their 10-12 year old sons about women, dating and sex. Most of us as kids never had “The Talk” with our dads, but there’s no question we would have benefited greatly from it. Not only will this program empower you to have this essential conversation with your son, it’ll show you how to get it right.

Secrets To Success With Women For Shorter Men

Secrets To Success With Women For Shorter Men

by Scot McKay

The ultimate audio program for men who are shorter than average. Identify your advantages and leverage them to get the women you’ve always wanted. A bonus audio on how to date taller women is included as well.

The Engineer's Guide To Being Cooler Than The Salesguy

The Engineer's Guide To Being Cooler Than The Salesguy

by Scot McKay

The most comprehensive program ever produced on the subject of becoming a cooler guy. Discover the elusive traits and attitudes that separate the cool guys from everyone else. Scot McKay’s easy-going style combined with a practical, objective format allows anyone to start applying this program’s principles and strategies TODAY.

Keys To Bliss -- Unlimited Membership

Keys To Bliss -- Unlimited Membership

by Emily McKay

Redefine yourself as a woman who deserves the very best man you’ll ever meet.

Realize unprecedented success with the opposite sex by transcending mere trickery and tactics in favor becoming a woman of true beauty, grace and class.

Fine-tune your attraction skills to earn a man who is among the highest echelon of overall quality…without ever “settling” for less.

Receive unlimited access to Emily McKay’s Keys To Bliss Member’s Area, where you’ll find a wealth of audio programs, video, e-books, special reports, interviews, valuable coupons, partner bonuses and much, much more.

Enjoy immediate access to all existing content and all new content as it is added…without waiting to access it from month to month.

All 4 Programs For Women

All 4 Programs For Women

by Emily and Scot McKay

Get My One & Only, Click With Him, Attraction Makeover and Deserve What You Want all at a special low bundle price.

My One & Only

My One & Only

by Scot and Emily McKay

Find the adoring man of your dreams, build a happy and fulfilling relationship with him and be that couple everyone else admires.

Click With Him

Click With Him

by Emily McKay

Meet the man of your dreams in 30 days or less, all by being the best, most authentic version of your true self.

Attraction Makeover

Attraction Makeover

by Emily McKay

Attraction Makeover contains four audio programs designed to maximize your personal style and re-invent how you present yourself to the world. Even learn how to read a man’s signals, plus discover what it is that REALLY attracts them about women…the truth will shock you. Also included are several high-value bonuses at no extra charge.

Deserve What You Want

Deserve What You Want -- Women's Version

by Scot McKay

If you are a woman who is ready to stop “waiting around for the right person to come along” this will be the most important book you will ever read. Discover how to free yourself from past experiences, and become wise to social “game playing”. Recognize a great man when you meet him and do what it takes to attract him and keep him attracted. Included are complete sections on how to make long-term relationships great and how to succeed at online dating. Get inside the mind of a great man and become the woman he can’t live without.

Deserve What You Want

Deserve What You Want -- Men's Version

by Scot McKay

Know who you are, what you desire in a relationship, and how to get it in Scot McKay’s groundbreaking new book. Special Men’s Edition contains additional advanced material for men only, and a revised mix of bonuses specifically for guys.

Cook For Your Date

Cook For Your Date

by Scot McKay

Your complete toolkit to making the perfect romantic evening happen. Whether you are an accomplished chef or a culinary novice, all the secrets to creating the perfect romantic evening for two are covered–from planning and preparing dinner to all the strategy necessary to make attraction skyrocket. The book includes a special recipe section, along with surprise sections covering an array of related topics. Take your dating life to the next level NOW!

How To Manage Your Wildly Successful Dating Life

How To Manage Your Wildly Successful Dating Life

by Scot McKay

You have an amazing social life, and you date quite often. In fact, you have already achieved the kind of success with the opposite sex that your friends can only dream about. Does this describe you? If not would you LIKE it to in the near future? Now it is time to take your game to the very pinnacle. Finally…A simple yet powerful way for anyone–man or woman–to balance a successful dating schedule and take back control. This book contains the very most advanced level of teaching regarding deserving what you want and finding the greatest person you’ve ever met.

Never Ever Settle

Never Ever Settle

by Scot McKay

The companion guide to the epic Virtuosity program is now available as a standalone e-book.

5 Amazon Books - PDF Format

5 Amazon Books - PDF Format

by Scot McKay

Get all five bestselling books:  Women Made Easy, Flirting Like Wildfire, What Works With Women, Most Valuable Player and Stop Chasing Start Choosing.  Each is in convenient PDF format and contains at least 10 bonus audios.

All Four Books

All Four Books -- Plus Ten Bonuses

by Scot McKay

Get Deserve What You Want, Cook For Your Date, How To Manage Your Wildly Successful Dating Life and Never Ever Settle bundled at a special savings of over $50, including the full MP3 audiobook version of Deserve What You Want. Plus, enjoy ten premium bonuses at no extra charge.

Three Books By Scot McKay

Three Books -- Plus Seven Bonuses

by Scot McKay

Get Deserve What You Want, Cook For Your Date and How To Manage Your Wildly Successful Dating Life bundled at a special savings of over $44, including the full MP3 audiobook version of Deserve What You Want. Plus, enjoy seven premium bonuses at no extra charge.

The Chick Whisperer - Lost Episodes

The Chick Whisperer - Lost Episodes

by Scot McKay

Archive of the first nine episodes of The Chick Whisperer, featuring Steve ‘The Dean’ Williams as co-host.

X & Y On The Fly - Lost Episodes

X & Y On The Fly - Lost Episodes

by Scot and Emily McKay

The first 27 episodes of the legendary X & Y On The Fly Podcast. These retired episodes are newly remastered and available again for the first time in many years. Download all iPod-friendly episodes from one convenient Members Area.

Projection Profile - Full Service

Projection Profile - Full Service

w/ Scot McKay

The Projection Profile is the most powerful and magnetic way to get high-quality women to respond online. Scot McKay will personally write your fully customized version. A clean, grammatically correct and typo-free copy is guaranteed, along with tangible results. Includes up to 2 revisions, feedback on your existing pictures (if desired) and basic strategies for writing e-mails to women. Delivery of the first draft is generally within 72 hours.

Write Women First - Full Service

Write Women First - Full Service

w/ Scot McKay

Select the 10 women you desire most from the online dating site of your choice, and let Scot McKay custom-craft the perfect first message for each one of them. Delivery is generally within 72 hours.

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Online Dating Success Package

w/ Scot and Emily McKay

Complete online dating success coaching. This comprehensive makeover of your online dating experience includes a full one-hour 1-on-1 consultation on your profile, along with a second one-hour 1-on-1 session covering foolproof strategies for screening potential dates, how to correspond via e-mail in a way that gets results and how to move from e-mail, to phone, to first meeting. Also included is a 30-minute debriefing/revision session within 14 days, just to make sure you’re meeting and connecting with exactly who you want to.

Ten-Plus Coaching

Initial Consultation

w/ Scot or Emily McKay

Initial 30-minute phone consultation with Scot or Emily McKay.

Ten-Plus Coaching

Ten-Plus Classic

w/ Scot or Emily McKay

Complete, customized, guided coaching program featuring ten one-hour coaching sessions with Scot or Emily McKay plus a complete planning session. Delivered via phone, video-conference or in person (based on local availability). Also includes phone and e-mail consultations in between sessions, along with all five of Scot McKay’s books.

Ten-Plus Coaching

Ten-Plus Platinum

w/ Scot and Emily McKay

Complete, customized, guided coaching program featuring ten one-hour coaching sessions with Scot and/or Emily McKay plus a complete planning session. Delivered via phone, video-conference or in person (based on local availability). Also includes extended phone time and unlimited e-mail consultations in between sessions, along with all five of Scot McKay’s books and one 8-hour on-site session with airport transfers (if applicable). Platinum level priority features preferred scheduling on short notice, including weekends.

Ten-Plus Coaching

Ten-Plus Live

w/ Scot and Emily McKay

Live, on-site 1-on-1 coaching with Scot and/or Emily McKay.

Undivided attention to preparing you for ultimate success. The program begins early evening on Day One (depending on flight arrangements) with a welcome session. Day Two and Day Three incorporate a minimum of eight hours of custom-tailored instruction and/or field work during the day, followed by a full evening out in San Antonio, offering you an objective opportunity to put everything covered into direct practice. Day Four features different scenarios in different environments, culminating in a debriefing lunch to helping you encapsulate the whole event.

A comprehensive advance planning session via phone is included, along with three advance sessions and seven follow-up sessions. It’s all designed to make certain your Ten-Plus Live experience is personalized to your exact specifications. You will also receive all five of Scot McKay’s books upon completion.

Meals and entertainment are included, as is transportation upon arrival. Transportation to/from San Antonio and lodging arrangements are the responsibility of the customer, which we are happy to provide assistance with.

Ten-Plus Coaching

Rapid Relationship

w/ Scot and Emily McKay

If you’re finally sick and tired of spinning your wheels only to end up dating the wrong person time and time again, the Rapid Relationship program is designed specifically for you…with fast results in mind.

After a targeted planning session, you’ll get right down to business with Scot and Emily. Your customized Rapid Relationship program is laser-focused on clearing out all the obstacles separating you from an amazing relationship with the partner of your dreams.

Uncover and eliminate any stumbling blocks from the past, clear out any hidden detractors that your friends will never tell you about and put an end to destructive patterns that have robbed you of the success you know you deserve. From there, look forward to a stunning personal transformation whereby you’ll begin meeting and dating only those who fit the exact description of the type of potential mate you’ve always wanted.

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Scot and Emily McKay

Scot and Emily McKay are professional dating and relationship coaches, authors and podcast hosts. Together they founded X & Y Communications in San Antonio, TX, which focuses on equipping and empowering men and women who want to go from good to great in their relationships.

They reach over 300,000 people all over the world through their newsletters, podcasts and social media. They are the authors of ten books between them, including four Amazon #1 bestsellers, and have been featured by over 400 media outlets worldwide.

Both Scot and Emily are Traveler’s Century Club members, having explored well over 100 countries together, often with their four children. Their travel blog and podcast can be found at www.wingitworldwide.com.