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Offer life-changing X & Y Communications products through our affiliate program…and we’ll pay 50% of each sale directly to you!

Enjoy generous baseline payouts, a high take rate on upsells and even recurring revenue every month with our Power Sessions For Men and Keys To Bliss For Women programs.

Here’s the scoop. We’ve made it fall-out-of-bed easy for you to offer X & Y Communications e-books and multi-media programs and make considerable extra income from it.

Plus, this is one of very few affiliate programs we know of that actually pays you recurring revenue. This comes your way every month based on sales of Power Sessions™ and Keys To Bliss™ continuity programs along with Easy Purchase™ plans available for Behind Closed Doors™, Female Persuasion™, The Difference™, The Man’s Approach™, The Master Plan™, The Leading Man™, Online Dating Domination 2.0™, Virtuosity™, Click With Him™, and even Attraction Makeover™.

That’s right…you refer a customer just one time and make money every month thereafter for as long as his or her subscription is in effect. You just can’t beat that.

For a complete listing of all the many proven solutions offered by X & Y Communications for both men and women, click on the link below. You’ll also find brief descriptions of each respective product and service, great for kicking your imagination into high gear thinking of all the possibilities. There really is something for everyone.

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Getting In On All The Fun Couldn’t Be Easier

Simply sign up for the program through, our affiliate marketing network of choice. It only takes about five minutes (seriously) and you are on your way. The BlueSnap partnership is particularly flexible, allowing you the power to choose which products you would like to promote from among the entire X & Y Communications product line.

You are furnished with unique link URLs to use on your own website or elsewhere in your own marketing campaigns. This guarantees that you get paid when someone purchases products from X & Y Communications after linking to us from you. And discretion is assured along with proper referral credit since your affiliation is 100% transparent. After clicking your link (e.g. via anchor text or a graphic), the end-user sees only the URL of our site in his or her browser’s location window.

What’s more, BlueSnap hard wires your referral into their own system for a full 365 days. This gets you paid for an entire year from the date of your initial referral on any product or service the customer buys–all without reliance on “cookies”. That’s right..the page from which the customer originally entered and from where he or she ultimately purchases doesn’t matter. You promote the products you choose to, but get paid regardless of what the customer buys. It’s all on auto-pilot after the initial referral.

It’s really that easy.

You’ll never, ever have to deal with customers. We take care of all of that, and BlueSnap faithfully pays you by check (or via PayPal or direct deposit, if you prefer) for every month’s worth of sales around the twentieth day of the following month with zero “holdback”. As you expect, you’ll have a full-range of reports and metrics available to you so you can track your success to the most granular level.

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Clickbank Users

Effective immediately, you can offer the men’s version of our top-performing program Female Persuasion through Clickbank. Simply use “femper” as the hoplink. If you have a Clickbank username already, all you do is replace “XXXX” in the following URL, and you are good to go:

Similarly, the popular sex advice program Behind Closed Doors has also been made available through Clickbank. For that, “bcdoors” is the hoplink to use, and here is the sample URL:

For a limited time, we are offering a full 70% commission on both of these hot selling programs when sold through Clickbank. Be sure to take advantage of this special opportunity to make some quick extra cash, thanks to fast sales and ultra-high customer satisfaction ratings on both.

Marketing Ideas

So how do you actually go about marketing X & Y Communications products to your audience?

For starters, you can embed your X & Y Communications affiliate links on your website or blog using simple anchor text and/or any number of graphics we’ve already built for you.

Simply select one of the banners or leaderboards we’ve provided and/or write a brief review illustrated with one of our numerous product graphics. Point the graphic to the link and you’re all set.

For high traffic affiliates we will even custom craft product pages (i.e. “landing pages”) around your affiliate link that look and feel exactly like our own, but reflect any particular unique promotion you have in mind for your audience. How cool is that? All you have to do is ask and it shall be done for you.

We’ve also been known to build custom graphics to match specific color schemes and design elements of our affiliates’ websites.

Another popular idea is to reprint any of the X & Y Communications articles we’ve authorized for such use on your website, replacing the links in the resource box (aka the “about the author” section) with your affiliate link. We’ve made this fall-out-of-bed easy for you by publishing a feed with all of the articles on it. You can find that right here.

If you’d like, we can also recommend specific articles to match the particular subject matter of your site, and provide them to you in text or HTML format. All you have to do is ask.

Specialized Affiliate Tools For Flagship Products

In order to assist you with campaigns for our most popular and lucrative high-end products, we’ve developed an entire range of specialized affiliate tools for each.

Better yet, we’ve grouped all the tools for each respective product on corresponding separate pages.

This convenient set up makes promotion of a particular product about as easy as humanly possible for you, while simultaneously giving you a wealth of tools to help prepare you for massive success.

Simply click the preview graphic for any individual product below to get started.







Pay-Per-Click Campaigns

An especially intriguing idea is to promote X & Y Communications through Google Adwords. You know those little “Ads by Google” you see everywhere? Those are everywhere for a reason–they work!

Get started on Adwords with our e-books and audio programs and get the peace of mind that comes from knowing that you are working with products that earn you full commission per sale without any overhead. That’s pure margin.

And at a bid of five cents per clickthrough on even a $20 e-book, it doesn’t take rocket science to figure out that break-even occurs at just a 200-to-1 conversion ratio! This is a truly exciting way to maximize your affiliation with X & Y Communications.

We’ll be happy to provide direct assistance to you with your Adwords campaign, even working with you to produce powerful text for your Google Ads. Call +1 (210) 260-6400 or e-mail us and we’ll make it happen for you.

Social Networking: The Sky’s The Limit

You can leverage social networking in a major way by offering X & Y Communications on your Facebook page or especially by starting conversations and sending messages using Twitter.

These are all exciting and very powerful new venues that can help make affiliate marketing work for you. Contact us for even more ideas.

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Joint Ventures

If you have a newsletter or reach out to an “opt-in” mailing list in some other way, you are free to market X & Y Communications products and services to your list…and we invite you to do so.

We understand that the best joint venture partnerships are two-way streets, so we are also happy to work with you to reciprocate in kind.

We’re always looking for solid offers to promote to our readers and listeners too, of course. If you are a producer of content that is relevant to X & Y Communications’ purpose and in line with character-based values, we’d be excited to strategize with you for the mutual benefit of our respective audiences.

Partnerships can also be formed if you are an influential blogger, podcaster, social media user and/or mainstream media producer; leveraging our considerable multi-media resources. Call or e-mail us anytime to discuss the many ways we can work together with you to help each other’s businesses grow.

What To Avoid

The only thing that you really shouldn’t be doing is sending your affiliate link to those who have not requested e-mail communication from you. That is spamming, and it’s against the law.

Well, actually please also avoid copying and reprinting X & Y Communications copyrighted materials (up to and including complete sites) without permission (remember, as mentioned above, we’ll gladly furnish custom landing pages for you free of charge) or pirating our products and selling them independent of affiliation.

And come to think of it, please also be careful to represent X & Y trademarks and products with integrity, avoiding any willful product misrepresentation and refraining from adding any fictional testimonials that make claims that we haven’t. Apparently, the Federal Trade Commission doesn’t take kindly to that sort of stuff.

We also strongly discourage affiliate promotions that key on negative keywords and/or that tease with a counter-productive headline (i.e. “scam, don’t buy this”). You’ll find that X & Y Communications has one of the best online reputations in the dating advice niche, and we’re understandably vigilant about keeping it that way.

Partaking in any of those things will cause drama (i.e. immediate termination of the non-compliant affiliate account), which we’re all about keeping to a minimum.

Graphical Articles, Sample Reviews, And E-Mail Templates

We have produced graphical articles, sample reviews and e-mail templates for you to freely incorporate into your marketing pieces. For the sake of convenience they are listed on a separate page, categorized by the product they serve to promote.

Right click on any of the graphical articles to save and use as content on your website and/or blog. Their sizing makes them easy to incorporate into a separate e-mail page, and you have no worries regarding Google’s duplicate content penalty.

You can even enclose these in HTML-based e-mail messages to your list…with phenomenal conversion results. Simply anchor the graphic to the appropriate affiliate link and the rest is magically (and transparently) taken care of for you. Sit back, relax, and earn commissions.

Please note that by request we have also produced sample reviews for The Man’s Approach™, The Master Plan™, Virtuosity™, The Leading Man™ and Attraction Makeover™ respectively. You can find those on the affiliate tools page for each respective product, linked to above.

You can also promote our flagship programs using the HTML e-mail templates we’ve created as well. You are free to reprint them as-is, or modify them in any way you’d like so as to generate maximum interest from your particular list. Just drop in your affiliate link as appropriate, and you’re good to go.

Remember, you are also free to reprint any other articles, retrofitted with your affiliate URL, of course. Those are found at our RSS feed. Easy simple.

Need more? Again, just ask.

Articles & Templates

Banners And Product Graphics

There is a wealth of banner ads and product graphics that you are free to use. Right click and save to your hard drive for reuse in your marketing materials, or simply copy the location of the graphic and insert the URL into your web site or blog if you’d prefer us to host it for you.

Note that in addition to product-specific banners, leaderboards and image graphics for The Master Plan™ and The Leading Man™ we now have three full sets of themed standard-size creatives. These are designed to make it super-easy for you to position any mix of X & Y products or services you’d like, all with a common look and feel to the ads you’re using. Pretty cool, huh?

Browse the themed sets by clicking on the preview graphics below, or use the links below those to view the banner ads and product-specific creatives (including bunches of all-new ones):







Let’s Get Started!

We look forward to building a long-lasting and mutually beneficial business relationship with you. You’ll soon find that we’re all about ensuring your success, and are genuinely ready to lend a helping hand to make it happen, starting today.

So take the next five minutes to sign up now for the X & Y Communications affiliate program now. We look forward to writing your first big commission check next month!

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Scot and Emily McKay

Scot and Emily McKay are professional dating and relationship coaches, authors and podcast hosts. Together they founded X & Y Communications in San Antonio, TX, which focuses on equipping and empowering men and women who want to go from good to great in their relationships.

They reach over 300,000 people all over the world through their newsletters, podcasts and social media. They are the authors of ten books between them, including four Amazon #1 bestsellers, and have been featured by over 400 media outlets worldwide.

Both Scot and Emily are Traveler’s Century Club members, having explored well over 100 countries together, often with their four children. Their travel blog and podcast can be found at