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Scot McKay

X & Y Communications Founder And CEO

Scot McKay

In the ’80s and early ’90s Scot McKay was working with “at risk” kids. From there he built a wildly successful corporate career as a billion-dollar IT sales professional, meeting with C-level executives and winning top sales awards.

But when a difficult divorced ransacked Scot’s world he hit rock bottom. He set out to understand women and find out what attracted them. His results were so powerful that his friends insisted that he reveal his secrets.

In 2005 Scot founded X & Y Communications, and was soon featured on David DeAngelo’s now legendary Interviews With Dating Gurus series.

Sixteen years later, Scot hosts the popular Mountain Top Podcast and is one of the most recognized and effective dating coaches for both men and women on the global stage. Now a four-time Amazon #1 bestselling author, he has been invited to speak at high profile conferences such as iDate and 140 Conference. Over 400 media outlets have consulted him, including ABC, NBC, CBS, Fox, BBC, MTV, Forbes, Lifetime, Men’s Health and The Wall Street Journal.

Through a combination of deserving what you want and decoding the other sex’s thought process, Scot talks about how a masculine, confident man of true character and leadership skill is an authentic representation of what most desirable women want, obviating the need for ‘tricks’ and ‘techniques’.

His next-generation concepts transcend mere pickup and seduction and describe a state of having 100% control over one’s dating life, culminating in the ability to attract the highest quality women on Earth, effectively manage relationships and make wise decisions from a position of strength.

Scot travels the world with his wife and fellow dating coach Emily McKay, while worldschooling their two youngest kids. They’ve been to over 100 countries together, run a travel blog and podcast called Wing-It Worldwide and are planning to start a safari company in east Africa.

He also inspires others to achieve location-independent freedom for themselves, through his Unchained Office newsletter and blog.

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Emily McKay

Managing Partner and Keys To Bliss Division Manager

Emily McKay

Emily McKay is a dating coach and co-host of the popular long-running podcast X & Y On The Fly.  Over the last thirteen years, her wise advice in combination with her friendly, engaging personality and kind heart have earned her thousands of readers and listeners worldwide.

Having been a single mom who eventually found the man of her dreams, her passion is encouraging and equipping women to be 100% feminine yet empowered and confident in the dating world.

Emily is the current Southwest Regional Champion BMX racer and represented Team USA at the recent World Championships. In her spare time she also practices Krav Maga.  She and her husband (and fellow dating coach) Scot have traveled to over 100 countries together and worldschool their two youngest children, John and Sarah.

Emily has been featured on dozens of dating summits.  She can be found on Chickipedia and was featured in The Women Who Rule The World calendar.

It’s certainly no wonder that Scot asked Emily to marry him after seven months of dating, and they’ve been together for thirteen years since. Emily exemplifies how X & Y Communications exists entirely to help you become the best you can be when it comes to dating and relationships, without having to learn and/or do things the ‘hard way’. It doesn’t matter if you are young or old, as yet unmarried, married, divorced or widowed. X & Y Communications can help you maximize your success in preparing for and eventually realizing the ultimate in relationships with a significant other.

Scot and Emily’s complete program for long-term relationship success, My One & Only, can be found at http://www.scotandemily.com. Sign up for Emily’s FREE Keys To Bliss newsletter and get a free audio program called, ”How To Take Control Of Your Dating Life”.

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James Knight

Division Manager, Code of the Natural

James KnightJames Knight has been in the health and fitness industry for over 20 years.  During that time he has worked with international athletes, Premier League footballers, tour golfers and hundreds of other people…all in an effort to reach their fitness goals and reduce their injuries.

His passion and expertise has always been in the field of kinesiology, or human movement.  He has traveled the world and studied under some of the greatest minds in the field, each with his or her own emphasis on what movement is and how to optimize it for spectacular results.

Over time, he has taken the best of what he has learned and developed a seamless way of making powerful transformations for both men and women in record time.

James is now a valued member of the X & Y coaching team, and is the man behind The Walking Code.

 


 

Trace Loft

Program Manager, Massage Your Date

Trace LoftTrace Loft is the author and developer of the highly acclaimed Massage Your Date system, a unique program designed to help men and women connect through the power of massage.  As of January 2016, he is on board as a valuable and well-regarded member of the X & Y Communications team.

Trace is a professional massage therapist who lives in New Orleans, Louisiana. As a successful serial entrepreneur and a fitness expert, he also owns and operates a chain of Crossfit gyms in the southeastern United States.

He is a Level One Crossfit Coach and a Certified Personal Strength Trainer. He also holds a license with the Louisiana State Board Of Health as a sports therapist.

Trace is a man of integrity who understands what it means to put others first while consistently doing the right thing and making sound decisions.  He has earned wide-ranging respect as a visionary leader in his community, having sparked creative small business ventures after hurricane Katrina hit in 2005.

 


 

Clovis Colley

Senior Certified Coach, Hypnotherapy

Clovis ColleyClovis is an energetic talk show host and accomplished hypnotherapist, very much a local celebrity in his hometown of Omaha, NE.

As a leader in comprehensive change work, he’ll help you quickly achieve profound and lasting results for a fuller and more satisfying life. You’ll be amazed at how little time it will take to attain real progress.

A long-time friend of X & Y Communications, we couldn’t be more thrilled to introduce Clovis to you. He is a master hypnotist and a Neuro-Linguistic Practitioner who can help you become more attractive to women, overcome approach anxiety, be a bolder man in the workplace, be a leader in your social circle or even achieve personal goals like quitting smoking.

He’s a former locomotive engineer who also shoots pool, flies his own plane and rides his own Harley. But as rough around the edges as he seems, you couldn’t ask for a more genuine, high-character guy.

Importantly, you’ll love his straightforward, no-nonsense style. Clovis has a way of making hypnotherapy accessible to normal, everyday folks…all thanks to both his undeniable skill and affable, down-to-earth demeanor.

As an added bonus, as soon as you talk to him you’ll realize he sounds more like John Wayne than even John Wayne does.

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